Your Boyfriend's Mother

Okay, so I guess every girl has a few issues with her boyfriend's mother, especially when wedding bells are in the air. Surely I'm not the only person with these kinds of problems. My future mother-in-law makes Disney's Evil Step-mother's seem like Tinkerbell or Glenda, the good witch. At first I thought she was like all boyfriend's mothers, over-protective of their sons, but then I saw the real face of this wicked witch of the west. How to describe what I mean? Most women think that no woman is good enough for there son, but this woman seems to hate her son just as much as she hates me. Oh she's not stupid, she never says as much, never comes right out and says "You're not good enough to be in my family, and neither is my son," if she did I'd take her out so quick she'd be ham sandwiches. No, she just belittles him, and tries to discredit him in front of me saying things like, "Oh you can't rely on him!" Not only does she do this to him, but also to me and about me, even saying stuff to my own parents. They, however, were disgusted and have refused to even be in the same room as her and his father, who didn't stop his wife and in fact added his own critism of us, in the future. How can any set of parents be so vile? Vile enough to want to give their own son a bad reputation, by discrediting him and me in front of strangers? My parents had only known them five days. At first I was almost certain I was being paranoid, that the subtle insults came out of misunderstanding of either languages, until my parents got here and showed me I wasn't being paranoid. This is all anonymous, because really this is nothing to do with anyone, but we all need to vent, right? It would be nice to know that there are other people with awful mothers-to-be-in-law. Over and out